If there's one thing that I know for sure... it's that sisterhood has saved me time and time again.
I've learned that there will always be a woman who shows up and will teach me about myself or about life.
I've learned to expect a miracle at the hands of a fellow sister.
I've learned that no matter what happens... my sisterhood will show up for me.
I've been supported by women who I didn't even know.
I've been supported when I didn't even know they were paying attention to me...
I've learned that Life will give you miracles and blessings. But that you have to keep your eyes and heart open to see and embrace them.
Often times we're so stuck in what we want and forget that we're to ask for what we want and move into that direction.
I've seen so many posts on social media about women complaining about the lack of sisterhood. I think this is pretty funny, as I've created a sisterhood with Spiritualista Beautique in a relatively short time.
When women hold on to the idea that sisterhood is is impossible, you will attract just that. In order to manifest the kind of sisterhood you're looking for, you must become that Sister. You must raise your vibrations to match your destination.
Cause the truth is: people are only able to meet you as deeply as they've met themselves.
Each and every one of us has an aspect of us that is under construction. We all have something that is is need of restructuring...
But if you're able to focus on what us good about you and commit to healing the things that are in need of restructuring, you will manifest the Sisterhood you're looking for.
My advise, in the words of Aunty Erykah Badu:
I don't go 'round trying to be what I'm not
I don't waste my time trying ta get what you got
I work at pleasin' me cause I can't please you
Don't go 'round trying to be what you're not. Be honest about who you are. Allow people the opportunity to connect to the real you. Don't make them a thief by giving them what you don't have to give.
Be willing to be vulnerable. Ask for what you want and need. Without vulnerability a relationship will lack intimacy and depth. To be vulnerable is to show up as yourself.
Be clear. The first step in manifesting is intention. Be clear about what you want, need, and are willing to do to get it. Be clear about the kind of friendships you want and be willing to show up as that person.
Love yourself enough... Love yourself enough to invest in a friendship and love yourself enough to walk away if a friendship isn't in alignment with who you are.
Values + principles. What values and principles do you hold dear? Like attracts like